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1919 King Street East
HAMILTON, ON L8K 1V9
Phone: 905-549-9955
Fax: 905-549-0724
Laryssa Todorovic

Laryssa Todorovic (Effremova)

Tuesday, January 16th, 1923 - Sunday, October 6th, 2019
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Obituary

Laryssa Todorovic
1923 ~ 2019

At Juravinski Hospital, with loving sons, caring family physician & friends, Laryssa passed away peacefully. Her faithful and most dedicated caregiver and son, Alex was the last gentle touch and firm voice that she would have connected with. She is survived by daughter Danica, in Australia, and two sons, Alexander and John Todorovic. Laryssa was the loving wife of Dusan, who passed early in life in 1976. She was the loving daughter of the late Pelagia Jefremovas and loving sister of Sonja and brother Eugene that pre-deceased her. Laryssa was the loving Aunt to the late Robert Paulionis , Andrew Paulionis, as well as Villia and Audrone Jefremovas, and sister-in-Law to the late Vincent Paulionis and Alla Jefremovas.
Her loving family extended to Daiva Paulionis (Smailys) and Ellen Paulionis (Caltabiano), Irene Paulionis, and a host of lovely now young adults, Edward Paulionis & wife Anna, Victoria ( Paulionis) & Yuri Charko and Meaghan Paulionis.
Laryssa is fondly remembered by a few remaining close friends, fellow Lithuanians and others that that migrated and bonded when they moved to Canada.
University educated in Austria where she met here husband, mother had a tremendous facility with many languages and utilized these skills for two and a half decades at Mills Memorial Music Library at McMaster University. Her innate characteristic of caring, along with a genuineness made her many friends amongst faculty and Staff at the University, even as they graduated and moved on to other places and countries.
Her loyalty to her progeny seemed unfathomable. She was a kind and gracious collector of things, and from amongst her boxes of things, she was able to become a graceful and elegant fixture at any gala or dance or social function. She loved the theatre, dance in particular and would have likely followed Pavarotti wherever he might sing.

The family would like to thank the kind and compassionate staffs that handled mother in her final years and particularly at Juravinski where mother spent her final weeks. There was a host caring nurses, her GP Jonel Miklea who always managed to perk her up and others on the surgical team that gave us hope and good advice, until the end.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to your favourite medical facility
PX Dermody Funeral Home,
796 Upper Gage Ave. Hamilton
Visitation: Thursday October 10,
7-9 pm

Funeral Service
Holy Veil of Holy Mother Russian Church
77 Sanford Ave. South, Hamilton
11 am

Burial to follow, Woodlands Cemetery, Burlington ON


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The tale of a life is often abridged into flash cards of memories through time. The real affect and impact that one life can impart to others, is potentially a more deeply ingrained, visceral sense that is undeniable.

Mother, your love seems boundless even now. You have never let us down, or disappointed us, and we know that you have always had our best interests at heart, we know that you wanted us always to learn, to improve and you wanted us most to be Happy in whatever we chose to do. For these things and your endless love, you will always be cherished and remembered.

The Children three. Danica, John, Alexander




Memories of Mother

A note that was intended to be formulated and read while Mother was still present. Sadly, and fashionably late, just as mother taught us to be, it is here.

As it becomes more apparent that our rock will not be coming home this time, a flood of thoughts, feelings, & memories become a swirling vortex in our minds. There is a great unrest here, as the very source of our being has slipped into an endless distant sleep. A forced abandonment of us, not by will or constitution but just a matter of cumulative episodes that had eroded an old & tired body.

With what seems endless hours of a kind of desperate loneliness, it seems easier to sort through the memory banks to reflect on the attributes that make Laryssa (mom to us), so special, revered and loved.

From the very beginning after a year of servitude for the trip across the pond, her focus and task was entirely for the betterment and advancement of her progeny. Somehow one must wonder how the new penniless immigrants, Dusan and Laryssa could manage in a few short years, to acquire a massive rental house with five tenants and our new family of four with one on the way. There is no doubt in our minds that the impetus for the planning and decision making for this endeavor was mother. She sought opportunities wherever they might be. This affinity led her to enroll us in any direction that might be deemed cultural, educational or beneficial…. We all had exposure to sometimes forced enterprises of improvement. It could be Russian instruction by Madame Anderson by age 5, at our melamine kitchen table, obligatory dance classes for all of us, perhaps failed musical instruction with the recognized best private instructor in the City… we had all these opportunities offered to us and more.

To this day we have to wonder what the magnitude of their sacrifices where, that allowed us many unique and special opportunities? Mother even sewed my first satin tunic for me.
The list of advantages and support are almost endless. There is no doubt that we were fitted with some of the best footware that money might buy at the time. Our salamander imported shoes might well have been three times the cost of regular shoes, but mother insisted, despite the fact that we could easily and carelessly ruin them in weather or sport. The same penchant for quality and exclusivity that mother enjoyed was willingly shared with all her children. She would wait for the once a year sale at the best shops in town and treat us all, or perhaps she would load up at the Hadassa annual bazaar and come home with more shopping bags than one could carry… somehow managing to get the goodies home by corralling someone kind enough to assist the lovely lady and a car full of stuff with a drive. We didn’t have a car till 1967, and father would heartily disapprove of more purchases of ‘stuff”.

This reminds me that mother had an endless energy, partly driven by necessity, but then there was the love that combined a full-time working mom with a full time mother, all to give us every advantage and opportunity.

It was necessary to travel by bus most often. It was a weekly ritual to get Danica to dance class in Toronto, and often we travelled as a family group to get her there. The National Ballet School was many hours and miles from our home in East Hamilton. The reward for our travel was often in the form of a treat from the Chinese Market close to the Toronto Bus Station. Perhaps a little end piece from the BBQ pork Tenderloins, or for the ladies, gnawing on those chicken feet. No thanks!

Life always seemed an adventure then, and all memories include the affable and unflappable Mrs. T. Mother could easily endear herself to others. There are many tales where her genuine love of art or fashion or even beauty would cause her to speak and engage with whomever. Often a shop-keeper would happily spend too much time with her, as she had a real appreciation for the unique, the artistic, the well-crafted.

Mother had her favourites and she was theirs as well. Doctor Miklea, was a spark for mother in the past decades. A great physician who might have booked mother as his last appointment for the day, as the conversation would keep them there, well into the supper hour. His life, his family his well-bieng where all part of how she could connect. They were dear friends as much as patient-Doctor.
Mother had the same kind of connection with her favourite Yorkville salon. Not that she went often, here whisps of baby-like hair were fair game for an occasional colouring, (until Alexander the Great Studio, at 54 Kirby Avenue.) You have to know that Mother met Zoran in his overpriced Spa, but she made a friend of him too. Her last minute appointments were accommodated and more importantly the modest charge he continually gave her (perhaps a third of what it could have been,) was honoured throughout her time there. She was known as a unique and caring character and deserving of such accommodations.

Did you know that mother didn’t tip? She firmly believed that whatever you did for someone was a kind of reward in itself. Many times she used the example that in her many years of work and her many over-time hours (without compensation), doing research or searching for some obscure scores, was an expression of love and care. She wasn’t tipped, didn’t expect any, and the concept discussion ended there.

Mother always sought out the better things in life… one of the best examples, is the find of the property on Kirby Avenue in Greensville. Her weekly drive with father were as much a search for an ideal lot, as much as a casual outing. I remember walking along the dirt path at the top of Crooks Hollow Creek. The acres were tilled farmland with a small sign for a future development.
Leave it to mother, she had eyed her favourite pines anchoring a particular piece that she favoured. Mother befriended the developer and so got her spot some years later. She was tenacious in many ways, resourceful and tireless in the effort to succeed.

The design of the first house on Kirby Avenue, was by one of Canada’s preeminent architects that was a commercial Architect. She found him, found a way to get a tour of his escarpment home, and ultimately he designed her house for her because of who she was and how she was. Mother was and will always be special.

The love and care that mother had perhaps was most enjoyed by Alex. In one of his worst times, it was Mother that found a top notch Labour Lawyer in Toronto that had refused this case due to the fact that it was too small by his standards. Mother was gifted at getting through the red tape, but more importantly she was able to connect and relay heart-felt information. Mori ended up assisting us, and for all his trouble, he didn’t even charge a penny.
Mother’s greatest joys seemed to always be family gatherings. Her Easters and Christmas celebrations with her mother and sister were especially important to her. She was connected closely to her culture, and Orthodox religion of Birth. Truth be told, dad, who was a good looking potential mate was a mere consideration of many, until he offered that he was Orthodox too! That clinched it.
This short (somewhat) summation would be incomplete without the acknowledgment that for many of her latter years mother’s caring and love for us, would be returned to her through Alex principally. She no doubt would have passed much sooner, perhaps years earlier. There was a level of love and care and responsibility that resembles exactly, a complete roll reversal.
Mother knew and graciously accepted it. Alex freely and diligently provided it. It is fitting that the care and love she freely gave us, was lovingly & graciously returned, mostly by Alexander.
For this immense showing of love and care for mother, we other siblings are also eternally grateful.

Mother always had a blessing for us as we left for school or work or play. The simply cross and a few whispered words were automatic it seemed. God Bless you and Keep you. (In Russian of course.)

This we now say to you dear Mother. May God Bless you and Keep you.

Love Always!

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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Thursday, October 10th, 2019 | 7:00pm - 9:00pm
    When
    Thursday, October 10th, 2019 7:00pm - 9:00pm
    Location
    P.X. Dermody - Upper Gage
    Address
    796 Upper Gage Ave.
    HAMILTON, ON L8V 4K4
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  • Service

    Friday, October 11th, 2019 | 11:00am
    When
    Friday, October 11th, 2019 11:00am
    Location
    Holy Vail of Holy Mother Russian Orthodox
    Address
    77 Sanford Ave. S.
    HAMILTON, ON L8M 2G7
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    Officiant
    Fr. Peter Shashkoff
  • Interment

    Location
    Woodland Cemetery
    Address
    700 Spring Garden Road
    HAMILTON, ON
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Irene Turuta

Posted at 10:11am
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Mother. May you find comfort at this difficult time surrounded by close friends and family.
Sincerely,
Irene Turuta
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Ellen Paulionis

Posted at 06:26pm
Our deepest condolences to you all on the loss of your Mother. I remember fondly the conversations I have had over the years with her at family gatherings. She was a delightful lady and it was my pleasure knowing her. May she rest in peace and be reunited with family that has gone on before her. Love always Ellen and Meaghan Paulionis.
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